What happened next...

Continuation from my first "Virgnial Blog".

Ideally you will have read my first blog, If you have not yet read it, go back and start again (It might make more sense and its only a 2 minute read).

A date had been arranged for Mistress Anna to visit for the weekend. Now all I had to do was panic and then calm down and contain my excitement. Next on the to do list was more research. My then partner suggested joining an Adult Streaming website to gain skills and more important knowledge.

I firmly believe "Everything happens for a reason" and "Every day is a learning day". I learned a LOT very quickly; I joined an "Agency" (I use that term very loosely!), and started my journey into becoming a professional Mistress. I knew very quickly that I would not under any circumstances be showing , doing or saying anything I did not feel comfortable with or that were a total turn off to me. I also knew very quickly that I wanted to have some extra money. (Cost of living and all that!) I found chatting to complete strangers with some very kinky thoughts and ideas was easier than I thought. I kept my clothes on, I did not perform sexual acts, I just simply spoke and found I enjoyed it. The part of the experience I did not enjoy, were time wasters, and being called "Babe, Sexy etc.". I was also being charged twice for the privilege!?! 30% was taken straight from any earnings and then the "Agency" would take another 10%. Some may say easy money, but I can assure you (Most Web Cam Models will agree) it is far from easy!

Time was ticking and Mistress Anna was due soon, I needed more time, so I decided to leave the agency and go it alone. The more I was on cam the more I learnt, simple terminology used in BDSM language, such as Pegging, and "A Levels", things like safe words and actions (Sometimes you just cant get a word out of your mouth due to obstruction) )and of course a variety of information relating to different kinks/fetish. Common kinks/fetish like "Foot Worship or Food Play" , but I learnt about other more extreme and not so talked about kinks/fetish, including CBT (Cock & Ball Torture), Armpit worship and many more. Next step (after some advice) was to watch porn. Not just any porn, it had to include key words like "BDSM, Kinky, Fetish, FEMdom.

I brought myself (No paypigs then) a very basic "Selection" of toys and outfits I also had plenty of ideas. I knew I was on the right path for me. I had done as much as I could in preparation of meeting and working with Mistress Anna. As discussed and agreed in advance Mistress Anna would show me the ropes (Pun intended) and I would also assist (A little bit to begin with) her in sessions to be held that particular weekend. Promotion was another important lesson; Potential Submissive's, Sissy's and Slaves did not know I was available. Fair point I thought but I realised after she had unpacked I did not have nearly enough "Equipment". Mistress Anna had brought what she described to be a small amount, that turned out to be a substantial variety of outfits, toys, whips, lube and more with her.

We went about turning my play space into a "Play Space", and although still quite bare it looked amazing! Then we got down to business and I was making notes all weekend on how to stay as safe a I possibly can, what security questions were most important, what things to do and say, advice on how to build my own selection of equipment and we even made some content for me to sell. I knew who I was and what type of Dominatrix I wanted to become, now I needed a name. "Mistress Ivy" was born.

A lot has happened in the past 3 years and I am defiantly not the same Mistress I was in the beginning. I am badder and better than ever! I have met a lot of interesting people and learnt so much more than I could have imagined! My knowledge and skills have been increased and continue to be. Not only has Mistress Anna (Cambridge), turned into only my original mentor, work colleague and best friend, I am with another more reputable agency with the Adult Site (mentioned but not named), and now I am also being mentored and working with Mistress Sophia (Swindon). "Everyday is a learning day"

Now I am here on my own website writing a "Blog" about my humble beginnings into the wonderful world of Kink and BDSM. I have discovered so far into my journey my favourite sessions include CBT, and CP (Corporal Punishment), my "equipment" selection is impressive and continuing to grow. I also think I am becoming a Sadist, but I need to do more research and for this I require willing, paying Masochists.

What are you waiting for?! Book and attend a session with me to find out for yourself. If you have read this far then you deserve a reward. When booking (and paying my required deposit tribute) quote "Blog, what happened next" for a special one off reward. For those not looking to book, but are plain nosey......I hope you enjoyed the read. To all of you..................

"Stay kinky & safe x"